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Dating is a art form (dating dynamic). It can feel like taking a class, if you do not have the experience with women. The process would then become MENTALLY tough because of your dating MINDSET. Therefore, you have come to the right article for your journey into the dating world. As A reminder before going deeper into the material, it is that i'm not a dating expert. I am still learning about all of this stuff, just like you.
Everybody has three ways, that men learn about dating/women. One, you learn thur books and other reading materials. Two, you learn thur friends, family, and strangers. Three, you learn thur trial and error (THE HARD WAY). I'll come back to why "the hard way" is of such importances.
I found this book that was mind changing to me. The books I have read before this recent book, really question my current knowledge of dating. Deep down I knew previously that, the information in this current book was the correct information to begin the journey with. In total, it comes down to the "The Hard Way" and not the "Easy Way" when dating women.
In "The Manual: What Women Want And How To Give It To Them" by W. Anton, he breaks down the dating process to its most basic fundamental Elements. When doing things the hard way in dating; what that means is that, men have to deal with "UNCERTAINTY" during the dating process. Uncertainty would be consider fear of rejection, approach anxiety and not knowing what to do in the MOMENT FACE to FACE with women. The main goal of the book, is how to deal with uncertainty. Bascially do not hesitate and talk to women in the MOMENT! There is no need for pick up lines, strategy/tactics, and no need for excuses for why you can't approach the woman. No excuses at all! You keep it simple and approach her straight up. After you approach, you state your interest/intentions for why you are there talking to her; in the first place. Get her attention 1st, say "hi" or "excuse me miss". After that, the first words out YOUR mouth should be stating your intentions towards her. THEN you proceed with small talk. The aim is to be VERY DIRECT with her. More details about this specific topic will be cover more in his book.
When I say "Approach her", that means approach her straight up in front of her. Not to the sides or behind. Before approaching her in the moment, do not for cues to see if she is interested in you. That should not matter or is it important to find out if she is. Find out, AFTER she gives you a response to your direct approach. Don't look to see if she alone or with friends, body language cues, smiling or not (friendly looking). All of the cues are under the category of MAKING EXCUSES for yourself for why you can't approach her. It is all in the mind, a mindset.
When I read this information, it was a slap to the face several times! It woke me up and made me even more determine to battle my issues with dating. If I was to tell you how long I went without sex, you would be shock (maybe to some people tho). That's a secret I am too embarrass to speak on. Some other time then. Anyhow, this book is defintily not made to make you feel good. It is to give you the HARD HITTING REALITY of the dating world. The only way is to confront your uncertainty (fear/rejection) is to exposed yourself to more interactions with women.
I want to leave you with a very important factor in the game of dating. And that is to pick who YOU find attractive with women. Attractive women only. It is important to end up with attractive women because it will be that much more fulfilling to you. If you end up without one, it won't feel worth it overall.Then you will regret not pushing yourself to deserving what you deserve with women.
In the end, you will not regret your choice of approaching attractive women. This might leave to dating, one night stand, relationship, f!uk buddies (lol). Gain that experience with women which will lead you to a super attractive woman. No man has time to become friends first or get stuck in the friend zone with no way out. Leave that to the simps. Life is too short for all that.
#DON'T BE A SIMP
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